Normally I wouldn't ask for that, but seeing as this blog is very new, and has only been around for three days, I really could use some viewer support. If this is going to work, I need everyone to take part in it. The more ideas you email me, the better. The more we all get to know each other, the better. And as soon as I have a large following, I will create a "dating" page. But before we get there, we got to get the now. Remember guys:
16%, and Strong!
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
My tumblr page
I also have a page on tumblr, dedicated to mostly masturbation, frot, and oral between dudes, so hit it up and check it out if you want, although it's just a porn blog, whereas this one is meant to be a place for us to talk about things, get to know one another, and grow as people.
www.myveryownjopage.tumblr.com
www.myveryownjopage.tumblr.com
A friend, indeed.
I would like to thank Jack for placing a link to my blog on his, and to thank him, here is his link guys:
http://jobuddy.blogspot.co.uk/?zx=2eba77f7f7c66a4
http://jobuddy.blogspot.co.uk/?zx=2eba77f7f7c66a4
Alright guys, a thought.
The Man2Manalliance organization, and the g0y organization have terms that make them unique, for example the Man2Manalliance members call themselves "Warriors", and the g0ys call themselves, well, g0ys. So they have terms that can easily identify themselves among themselves. WE need a good term to apply to ourselves to show that we, like them don't like anal, BUT that we don't judge whether a person is worthy of being considered normal if he's super-masculine, or only a little-masculine, or even a femme. WE want to be the middle ground between the warring gay guys that think anal is all there is, and the gay guys like the g0ys and the Warriors that think you can only be a guy not into anal if your a super-jock.
I would appreciate all impute, whether you are going to join the blog or just come by and visit. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE EMAIL ME WITH IDEAS!!!!
We are the ones open-minded, and willing to accept all gay/bi (even straight) men that don't do anal for who they are:
We are the 16%, and we are Strong!
I would appreciate all impute, whether you are going to join the blog or just come by and visit. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE EMAIL ME WITH IDEAS!!!!
We are the ones open-minded, and willing to accept all gay/bi (even straight) men that don't do anal for who they are:
We are the 16%, and we are Strong!
Another way: Mutual Masturbation
Common sense tells us what mutual masturbation is: you either jack off beside that special guy, or you grab his cock and do it for him. It's simple. I shouldn't have to post any links to give you guys an idea of what that is...I hope. LOL.
However I am posting some mutual masturbation pics on the post, and labeling the "positions" that they are.
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Side-by-side (favorites among "straight" guys.)
However I am posting some mutual masturbation pics on the post, and labeling the "positions" that they are.
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Far-away jerking AND
Side-by-side (favorites among "straight" guys.)
Side-by-side helping hand (I love this one, and a lot of "straight" guys like this one too, if they would admit it)
Scissor-Jerking (gets you all over the other guy while still jerking yourself.) I couldn't really find a picture of the Scissor-Jerking where the guys yank each other off, but it's self explanatory. Pretty much 69 position, but on your backs, put your arm under the other guy's leg and get to whacking his meat!
I'll post more pictures like these up as the blog grows, but these are some clear examples (although hopefully you didn't need them) of how to mutually jerk off.
Have you ever been told...
that you were "immature", or not "normal" by other gay/bi men? That you needed to seek professional help to see why you don't like "sex"? Well, guess what, I have. I have been told all of those things, only because I don't like anal. A gay man told me that I should be ashamed of myself, and that I probably suffered from self-hate and internalized homophobia. Which is not the case, as any of us that are in the 16% range know. We just don't like anal, or we can't do it, or it turns us off. (All three of which in my case) And since it is the social gay "norm" now to have anal sex, we are the odd men out, the ones that don't fit in anywhere. Which is exactly why this blog was created: for us.
If you have any stories about how other gay/bi men have treated you badly, or have looked down on you, or stopped talking to you, because you don't do/like anal, please tell me, either through contacting me on my email or commenting below. Please, share your story.
16%, and Strong!
If you have any stories about how other gay/bi men have treated you badly, or have looked down on you, or stopped talking to you, because you don't do/like anal, please tell me, either through contacting me on my email or commenting below. Please, share your story.
16%, and Strong!
Frottage: What is it, and how do I do it?
Good question, and I'm glad you asked.
Frottage is pretty much genital-to-genital rubbing until climax. In other words, rubbing your dick against another guys dick until the both of you cum. It's actually VERY pleasurable and a very safe method of sexual activity between two men. I have included a link here on this post that is very informative about the subject, and saves me a lot of typing (yeah I know, lazy of me. But I did post this up at 2:30 am, so give me some credit for thinking it through this much).
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frot
Also, if you have noticed the picture behind the title of the page, it is a prime example of frottage. I have also included some pictures on this post, and for the record, there will be random pictures from time to time of the sexual acts that we as non-anal gay/bi men can perform with each other.
Frottage is pretty much genital-to-genital rubbing until climax. In other words, rubbing your dick against another guys dick until the both of you cum. It's actually VERY pleasurable and a very safe method of sexual activity between two men. I have included a link here on this post that is very informative about the subject, and saves me a lot of typing (yeah I know, lazy of me. But I did post this up at 2:30 am, so give me some credit for thinking it through this much).
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frot
Also, if you have noticed the picture behind the title of the page, it is a prime example of frottage. I have also included some pictures on this post, and for the record, there will be random pictures from time to time of the sexual acts that we as non-anal gay/bi men can perform with each other.
These of course are only a few pictures of frottage, and I will post more as the blog grows.
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Hey Guys, and Welcome
Hey guys. This blog is for those of us gay guys (around 16%, wow I know, not a lot) that don't have anal sex, due to the fact that it is too painful for us, or we do not enjoy it. Go to any gay dating site, and you will notice that they do not really offer options for those of us that do not have anal sex, in fact, most of the time they require you to choose between "top", "bottom", or "versatile". Very few sites actually allow you to choose anything besides that. And none of them that I have come across even allows for Intercrural sex, frottage, mutual masturbation, etc. etc. And the only websites I have found that even remotely speak to us gay men that are not interested in anal is the Man2Manalliance.org, run by Bill Weintraub, or the g0y movement. (However both of these movements do not really leave much room for those of us that aren't labeled into the "jock" or "straight-acting" categories.).
Although I can understand these two sites, and what their goal is, some of us don't really fit their bill for acceptance. Some of us are not the physically fit macho jocks that they want us to be. Some of us have a few feminine characteristics, and that is what makes us who we are. I applaud the two movements, for trying, but I feel that they went too far in a different direction, not really leaving some of us any choice but to feel ostracized both in their communities, and in the mainstream gay communities. Take me for instance: I'm your average nerdy type. I like chess, and video games, books and art. The only sports I like are tennis, bowling, raquetball, volleyball, and table pool. Which aren't really considered "sports" by most people but rather hobbies. Also I have a little femininity about me, which has always been the case, from birth. Some people might disagree and say that I was brought up that way, and I will say that I have seen it happen. I have seen "macho" gay guys that are in the closet suddenly turn into drama queens once they come out. So, as you can see, I would not fit their model as a "straight-acting macho man". So where does that leave me, especially within their organizations that are the closest thing I have to what I feel?
I'm not going to go into details and say I believe every word of the above mentioned two movements, because I most definitely do not. However I can see some of their points, and can agree with some of them. Feel free to check out their sites and see for yourself, and decide what you feel about their methods and beliefs, perhaps one of them is right for you, if so, go at it. However, I did not make this blog to send others to these two sites. Quite the contrary, I created this blog as a safe haven, for those of us that don't belong to the two above movements, or to the gay community that prizes anal sex as the only way to have sex.
I am here to tell you that is not the case. There are MANY different ways that we can please men other than anal sex, and that is what this blog is about: a place where we can all talk, get together, discuss, and possibly even find a mate. As this blog progresses, hopefully I will be able to create a side bar for those of us to meet with others in our areas, it's my dream to create a safe haven for those of us that need a place to join together.
Welcome to XVI!
16%, and Strong!
Although I can understand these two sites, and what their goal is, some of us don't really fit their bill for acceptance. Some of us are not the physically fit macho jocks that they want us to be. Some of us have a few feminine characteristics, and that is what makes us who we are. I applaud the two movements, for trying, but I feel that they went too far in a different direction, not really leaving some of us any choice but to feel ostracized both in their communities, and in the mainstream gay communities. Take me for instance: I'm your average nerdy type. I like chess, and video games, books and art. The only sports I like are tennis, bowling, raquetball, volleyball, and table pool. Which aren't really considered "sports" by most people but rather hobbies. Also I have a little femininity about me, which has always been the case, from birth. Some people might disagree and say that I was brought up that way, and I will say that I have seen it happen. I have seen "macho" gay guys that are in the closet suddenly turn into drama queens once they come out. So, as you can see, I would not fit their model as a "straight-acting macho man". So where does that leave me, especially within their organizations that are the closest thing I have to what I feel?
I'm not going to go into details and say I believe every word of the above mentioned two movements, because I most definitely do not. However I can see some of their points, and can agree with some of them. Feel free to check out their sites and see for yourself, and decide what you feel about their methods and beliefs, perhaps one of them is right for you, if so, go at it. However, I did not make this blog to send others to these two sites. Quite the contrary, I created this blog as a safe haven, for those of us that don't belong to the two above movements, or to the gay community that prizes anal sex as the only way to have sex.
I am here to tell you that is not the case. There are MANY different ways that we can please men other than anal sex, and that is what this blog is about: a place where we can all talk, get together, discuss, and possibly even find a mate. As this blog progresses, hopefully I will be able to create a side bar for those of us to meet with others in our areas, it's my dream to create a safe haven for those of us that need a place to join together.
Welcome to XVI!
16%, and Strong!
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